Love isn’t an act, it’s a whole life.
its staying with her now because
she needs you; its knowing you
and she will still care about each other when
sex and daydreams, fights and futures –
when all that’s on the shelf and done with.
Love-why. I’ll tell you what love is:
it’s you at seventy-five and her at seventy-one.
each of you listening for the other’s
step in the next room. each afraid that a
sudden silence, a sudden cry,
could mean that a lifetime’s talk is over